This PR fixes a set of build issues with experimental targets happened
in result of merging #111234 to master.

Following discussions in #110443, and the following earlier discussions
in https://lists.llvm.org/pipermail/llvm-dev/2017-October/117907.html,
https://reviews.llvm.org/D38482, https://reviews.llvm.org/D38489, this
PR attempts to overhaul the `TargetMachine` and `LLVMTargetMachine`
interface classes. More specifically:
1. Makes `TargetMachine` the only class implemented under
`TargetMachine.h` in the `Target` library.
2. `TargetMachine` contains target-specific interface functions that
relate to IR/CodeGen/MC constructs, whereas before (at least on paper)
it was supposed to have only IR/MC constructs. Any Target that doesn't
want to use the independent code generator simply does not implement
them, and returns either `false` or `nullptr`.
3. Renames `LLVMTargetMachine` to `CodeGenCommonTMImpl`. This renaming
aims to make the purpose of `LLVMTargetMachine` clearer. Its interface
was moved under the CodeGen library, to further emphasis its usage in
Targets that use CodeGen directly.
4. Makes `TargetMachine` the only interface used across LLVM and its
projects. With these changes, `CodeGenCommonTMImpl` is simply a set of
shared function implementations of `TargetMachine`, and CodeGen users
don't need to static cast to `LLVMTargetMachine` every time they need a
CodeGen-specific feature of the `TargetMachine`.
5. More importantly, does not change any requirements regarding library
linking.

cc @arsenm @aeubanks

- Fix build with `EXPENSIVE_CHECKS`
- Remove unused `PassName::ID` to resolve warning
- Mark `~SelectionDAGISel` virtual so AArch64 backend can work properly

This reverts commit de37c06f01772e02465ccc9f538894c76d89a7a1 to
de37c06f01772e02465ccc9f538894c76d89a7a1

It still breaks EXPENSIVE_CHECKS build. Sorry.

Port selection dag isel to new pass manager.
Only `AMDGPU` and `X86` support new pass version. `-verify-machineinstrs` in new pass manager belongs to verify instrumentation, it is enabled by default.

Port the `atomicexpand` pass to the new Pass Manager. 
Fixes #64559

This will make it easy for callers to see issues with and fix up calls
to createTargetMachine after a future change to the params of
TargetMachine.

This matches other nearby enums.

For downstream users, this should be a fairly straightforward
replacement,
e.g. s/CodeGenOpt::Aggressive/CodeGenOptLevel::Aggressive
or s/CGFT_/CodeGenFileType::

Follow up to the series:
1. https://reviews.llvm.org/D140161
2. https://reviews.llvm.org/D140349
3. https://reviews.llvm.org/D140331
4. https://reviews.llvm.org/D140323

Completes the work from the previous two for remaining targets.

This creates the following named passes that can be run via
`llc -{start|stop}-{before|after}`:
- arc-isel
- arm-isel
- avr-isel
- bpf-isel
- csky-isel
- hexagon-isel
- lanai-isel
- loongarch-isel
- m68k-isel
- msp430-isel
- mips-isel
- nvptx-isel
- ppc-codegen
- riscv-isel
- sparc-isel
- systemz-isel
- ve-isel
- wasm-isel
- xcore-isel

A nice way to write tests for SelectionDAGISel might be to use a RUN:
line like:
llc -mtriple=<triple> -start-before=<arch>-isel -stop-after=finalize-isel -o -

Fixes: https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/issues/59538

Reviewed By: asb, zixuan-wu

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D140364