Use a forward-declaration instead.

Frame indices are dense and consecutive, so use a vector instead of a
std::map. Due to possibly negative frame indices, use zig-zag encoding.
IndexedMap was not usable, as it attempted to copy the null value, which
is not possible with a std::unique_ptr.

This is just a minor performance improvement, but a low-hanging fruit.

Most users of PseudoSourceValue.h only need PseudoSourceValue, not the
PseudoSourceValueManager. However, this header pulls in some very
expensive dependencies like ValueMap.h, which is only used for the
manager.

Split off the manager into a separate header and include it only where
used.

Avoid the dependency on TargetInstrInfo, which depends on the subtarget
and therefore the individual function.

Currently AMDGPU is constructing PseudoSourceValue instances in MachineFunctionInfo.
In order to facilitate copying MachineFunctionInfo, we need to stop allocating these
there. Alternatively we could allow targets to subclass PseudoSourceValueManager,
and allocate them similarly to MachineFunctionInfo.

This is a (fixed) recommit of https://reviews.llvm.org/D121169

after:  1061034926
before: 1063332844

Discourse thread: https://discourse.llvm.org/t/include-what-you-use-include-cleanup
Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D121681

This reverts commit 7f230feeeac8a67b335f52bd2e900a05c6098f20.
Breaks CodeGenCUDA/link-device-bitcode.cu in check-clang,
and many LLVM tests, see comments on https://reviews.llvm.org/D121169

after:  1061034926
before: 1063332844

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D121169

Identified with modernize-use-equals-default

Causes buildbot failures.

Fix MachineMemOperand.h implicit dependency on Type.h via PseudoSourceValue.h