The LLVM Style Guide says the following about error and warning messages
[1]:

> [T]o match error message styles commonly produced by other tools,
> start the first sentence with a lowercase letter, and finish the last
> sentence without a period, if it would end in one otherwise.

I often provide this feedback during code review, but we still have a
bunch of places where we have inconsistent error message, which bothers
me as a user. This PR identifies a handful of those places and updates
the messages to be consistent.

[1] https://llvm.org/docs/CodingStandards.html#error-and-warning-messages

Starting with https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/154686 the
compressed_pair children are now wrapped in an anonymous structure.

This patch adjusts the LLDB data-formatters to support that.

Outstanding questions:
1. Should GetChildMemberWithName look through anonymous structures? That
will break users most likely. But maybe introducing a new API is worth
it? Then we wouldnt have to do this awkward passing around of
`anon_struct_index`
2. Do we support the layout without the anonymous structure? It's not
too much added complexity. And we did release that version of libc++, so
there is code out there compiled against it. But there is no great way
of testing it (some of our macOS matrix bots do test it i suppose, but
not in a targeted way). We have the layout "simulator" tests for some of
the STL types which I will adjust.

This PR is in continuation of
https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/136693.

This patch replaces the use of `UINT32_MAX` as the error return value of
`GetIndexOfChildWithName` with `llvm::Expected`.


# Tasks to do in another PR

1. Replace `CalculateNumChildrenIgnoringErrors` with
`CalculateNumChildren`. See [this
comment](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/136693#discussion_r2056319358).
2. Update `lldb_private::formatters::ExtractIndexFromString` to use
`llvm::Expected`. See [this
comment](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/136693#discussion_r2054217536).
3. Create a new class which carries both user and internal errors. See
[this
comment](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/136693#discussion_r2056439608).

Currently the data-formatters log to either DataFormatters or Types. The
former is probably more sensible, so log there consistently from all
formatters.

When the data-formatters happen to break (e.g., due to layout changes in
libc++), there's no clear indicator of them failing from a user's
perspective. E.g., for `std::vector`s we would just show:
```
(std::vector<int>) v = size=0 {}
```
which is highly misleading, especially if `v.size()` returns a non-zero
size.

This patch surfaces the various errors that could occur when calculating
the number of children of a vector.

rdar://146964266

This patch pushes the error handling boundary for the GetBitSize()
methods from Runtime into the Type and CompilerType APIs. This makes it
easier to diagnose problems thanks to more meaningful error messages
being available. GetBitSize() is often the first thing LLDB asks about a
type, so this method is particularly important for a better user
experience.

rdar://145667239

The vast majority of `SyntheticChildrenFrontEnd` subclasses provide
children, and as such implement `MightHaveChildren` with a constant
value of `true`. This change makes `true` the default value. With this
change, `MightHaveChildren` only needs to be implemented by synthetic
providers that can return `false`, which is only 3 subclasses.

ValueObject is part of lldbCore for historical reasons, but conceptually
it deserves to be its own library. This does introduce a (link-time) circular
dependency between lldbCore and lldbValueObject, which is unfortunate
but probably unavoidable because so many things in LLDB rely on
ValueObject. We already have cycles and these libraries are never built
as dylibs so while this doesn't improve the situation, it also doesn't
make things worse.

The header includes were updated with the following command:

```
find . -type f -exec sed -i.bak "s%include \"lldb/Core/ValueObject%include \"lldb/ValueObject/ValueObject%" '{}' \;
```

This patch is in preparation for the `__compressed_pair` refactor in
https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/pull/76756.

This is mostly reviewable now. With the new layout we no longer need to
unwrap the `__compressed_pair`. Instead, we just need to look for child
members. E.g., to get to the underlying pointer of `std::unique_ptr` we
no longer do,
```
GetFirstValueOfCXXCompressedPair(GetChildMemberWithName("__ptr_"))

```
but instead do
```
GetChildMemberWithName("__ptr_")
```

We need to be slightly careful because previously the
`__compressed_pair` had a member called `__value_`, whereas now
`__value_` might be a member of the class that used to hold the
`__compressed_pair`. So before unwrapping the pair, we added checks for
`isOldCompressedLayout` (not sure yet whether folding this check into
`GetFirstValueOfCXXCompressedPair` is better).